Our Circle Covenant

Trust is something
we protect together.

Marriage & Me is intended to be a safe place for honest conversation. By participating, we agree to help protect that environment.

  1. 01

    What is shared here stays here.

    I will not repeat another woman’s personal story, identity, circumstances, or private information outside this group.

  2. 02

    I will listen without judgment.

    Every woman’s marriage and life experience is different.

  3. 03

    I will speak from my own experience.

    I will use statements such as “In my experience...” rather than telling another woman what she must do.

  4. 04

    I will not shame another woman.

    I will not shame her for staying, working on her marriage, separating, or seeking professional assistance.

  5. 05

    I will not use this group to attack or humiliate husbands.

    We can speak truthfully about harmful behavior while maintaining the purpose and dignity of this circle.

  6. 06

    I will respect differences.

    I will respect differences in beliefs, backgrounds, experiences, and opinions.

  7. 07

    I understand the purpose of this group.

    Marriage & Me is a peer-support and educational group and is not a substitute for licensed medical, mental-health, financial, legal, or domestic-violence services.

  8. 08

    Safety comes before reconciliation.

    Abuse, threats, coercion, or violence will not be treated as ordinary marital disagreement.

  9. 09

    I have permission to pass.

    No participant is required to answer a question or disclose something she is not ready to share.

  10. 10

    I will protect this circle.

    I will not photograph, video-record, audio-record, livestream, or post another participant’s story on social media.

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